THREE.Cache affects whether three.js itself will cache the results of requests. <meta http-equiv="Cache-Control" is best avoided.
The behavior you’re seeing is the browser (not three.js) caching requests. You can disable that either with different URL parameters (as you’re doing above) or by changing the settings of the server hosting those files.
you should probably overwrite fileloader, set cache option to no-store for the fetch request. another way is to change web server response header to disable cache.